One of the most fundamental rights a child has is to be protected by his or her parents. PAKT was created to advocate for and speak out for kids and parents together, instead of opposed to each other. Please sign up and help us reach our elected officials with a message that parents and kids are better together.
Parents and Kids Together is a coalition of groups from across Alberta committed to advocating for ideas and laws that protect children and their parents. We believe empowering parents to play an active role in the lives of their kids is the best way to protect children and youth.
We are mobilizing Albertans from across the province to contact their MLA to show support for legislation respecting parents' rights. We believe all children, are best protected when their parents are involved in their medical decisions.
We are Alberta moms and dads, brothers and sisters, kids and grandparents who believe parents and kids are stronger together. We represent groups and individuals from all over Alberta who want to protect kids and help parents.
Bill 29 protects the rights of biological girls to compete only with other girls. Though the differences between men and women may not be important in some sports, the physical advantage male bodies have in other sports such as football, boxing and hockey, make it dangerous for biological girls to participate.
MLAs tell us they only hear from us when they do something wrong. We need to support them when they do something right. Show your support by attending a rally at the legislature on Nov 9th. Then contact your MLA and let us know the name of that MLA so we can ensure every elected official gets contacted.
You will be redirected to our Eventbrite page. You need to register on Eventbrite so we know how many people will be attending.
In order to ensure only allies get the info on the rally, you need to register with your name, contact info and postal code.
You will get the information for the rally a few days before the event. Please make sure you check your email.
We welcome volunteers of all ages to help us with our rally. Please contact us at contact@parentsandkidstogether.ca and let us know how you can help!
We want to bring some powerful speakers to the rally but we can only do that with your donations. Please donate below.
Once you get the rally details, please join us in November at the Alberta legislature! See you then.
Alberta's MLAs need to know that we SUPPORT the legislation because they hear from those who oppose it. Contact your MLA by phone, in-person or by e-mail. Use ARPA's website which will make it easier to send a personalized letter. Then, let us know which MLA you've contacted so we can ensure every MLA is contacted.
Opponents of these bills are making arguments that are simply untrue. We refute many of the arguments below:
Do we care about Kids? Yes we do! Responding to Opponents of the Legislation
1. “Making any education about sexual orientation, gender identity, or human sexuality require parental notice and for parents to OPT-IN will undermine not just education that teaches human rights and that it’s OKAY to be gay, trans, or 2SLGBTQ+. It will also undermine all sex education - practical and essential knowledge that prevents childhood sexual abuse and which every kid has a right to learn about.”[1]
Response:
This is one of the most disturbing claims of those opposed to the legislation because Alberta Education has always included a partnership with parents. To suggest that parents should not know what their children are learning on any topic takes away the fundamental right of kids to be protected by their parents. Besides, parents already have a right to know what their children are learning on any topic and this has not led to more sexual abuse, suicide or other harms.
The government mandate for the education department already acknowledges the right of parents to be involved in every part of the provincial curriculum. It states:
2. “I want to believe that most parents are good parents who, of course, want to know what’s going on in their children’s lives and would learn and support their kid if they came out as 2SLGBTQ+. But policies have to be made with the most vulnerable in mind, and take into account that some parents are homophobic, transphobic, and abusive.”
Response:
There are already laws in place that protect kids from harmful parents. In fact, according to the Alberta Children and Family services website, “Alberta’s Child, Youth and Family Enhancement Act requires anyone who believes a child is at risk to report their concern.[3]” It goes on to say, “The Child, Youth and Family Enhancement Act provides authority for Child and Youth Services to provide services in support of children who are abused, neglected or otherwise in need of intervention. As a last resort, the Act allows for children to be apprehended if they are not safe in their own homes...[4]” Of course, this means children who come out as LGBTQ have the same legal protections as any other child. This argument provides no evidence that another law is needed.
3. “Forcing teachers to out youth who are questioning, exploring, or transitioning in their gender identity to their parents creates an incredibly dangerous situation for vulnerable kids. Let’s trust kids to know their parents and know if and when it’s safe to come out to them.
Response:
The assertion that Alberta parents are a danger to their children because they know about their child’s sexual or gender identity assumes that kids can only be protected by schools, peers or even strangers. There is no reason to suggest that Alberta’s parents aren’t loving or supportive of their children. No one loves a child like mom and dad.
The argument also assumes that parents must agree with every decision their minor children make in order to care for them. But parents disagree with their children’s decisions all the time and do so because they love their children. This is why parental rights are guaranteed in Alberta law. As adults, parents understand the consequences of decisions that children do not have the capacity to. Living as another gender apart from your biological body is a life-altering decision, especially if it involves medical intervention. With every other medical issue (except abortion), parents are legally required to be involved in their child’s life.
The argument also makes no distinction between a six-year-old child and a sixteen-year-old child. It advances polices that would allow children as young as five or nine to declare their gender identity without guidance and support from those who know them best: their parents. Yet any good parent knows that children do not fully understand what they are choosing. This is why we don’t “trust” kids at that age to choose their bedtimes or meals. Why would you “trust” them to choose their identity if they can’t choose to eat ice cream for lunch?
4. “It’s well established that gender-affirming healthcare saves lives. There’s also no such thing as under 18 bottom surgery in Canada. Transgender people access care in a step by step way with doctors, counselling, and due diligence at every stage.”
“More youth will die by suicide if they are cut off from hormones or puberty blockers and prevented from living as the gender that fits them.”
Response:
The studies are inconclusive at best and deceitful at worst. These studies rely on a small sample size (there was not enough people interviewed to make a conclusion), did not follow the long-term health of patients, and often ignored or even covered up conclusions that did not agree with activists’ conclusions. An extensive study by doctors and other medical experts lays out major problems with this assertion:
Those of us who support the government legislation want all kids to be safe and healthy. We do not want any child do commit suicide. Putting aside the debate on transitioning children, we should all be able to agree that a child who is willing to kill herself because she does not get what she wants, is not well. That child deserves all our support to live by helping her see that killing herself because parents may disagree with her on a difficult issue, is never the solution.
[1] https://www.antihate.ca/letter_to_danielle_smith
[3] https://www.alberta.ca/children-and-family-services
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The Alberta Parents’ Union advocates for the best possible education for all Alberta students - whether that be public, separate, francophone, alternative, charter, independent, or home education.
We are parents (and also grandparents, guardians, and even some teachers) of K-12 students all across our province.
We aim to empower parents wit
The Alberta Parents’ Union advocates for the best possible education for all Alberta students - whether that be public, separate, francophone, alternative, charter, independent, or home education.
We are parents (and also grandparents, guardians, and even some teachers) of K-12 students all across our province.
We aim to empower parents with the information and tools they need to ensure every child in Alberta achieves their full potential.
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